My First Taste of Women Empowerment
Most nights I lie
awake thinking of all the stories I read in the day, of women and children
being prosecuted and abused, and how I could do nothing to help them. Last
night I lay awake thinking about the days when I didn’t have to struggle with
such thoughts. The only time I didn’t have such thoughts is when I was in
primary school. As always, one thought lead to another and I began to marvel at the fact that
my school was run only by women – a diverse group of catholic nuns and women
teachers.
I spent 12 years at St.
Ann’s High School Tarnaka, from the age of 3 to 14 – the foundation years of my
life, and I spent them in the company of girls from different backgrounds, all of
us being educated by the same set of empowered nuns and teachers. I had taken
for granted their ability to run a school of about 3000 girls, because they
always made it look so effortless. Today, as a working professional, I realise,
what a mammoth undertaking it is to successfully run a large school and ensure
that each girl has a success story to tell.
Twenty years ago, or
more, the words ‘women empowerment’ and ‘feminism’ didn’t have the power they do today. But I believe, this school is where I first encountered both these concepts. I watched
women empowerment and feminism come to life through the work and everyday toil
of visionary and inspiring women – women who set us up with examples we could
embrace and follow.
The nuns and teachers
of St. Ann’s Tarnaka, are not only excellent educators but also great managers
and leaders. Watching them go toe-to-toe with men in a man’s world, inspired us
back then and still does today. The girls from my school were the best at
everything, whether it was grades, sports, or organising some legendary sports and
cultural events. Other co-ed schools in the area would send their boys and
girls to learn from us and compete with us, and we would always win. We were relentless and not intimidated by the world, because, St. Ann’s Tarnaka, refused put us in a
box of stereotypes. We were taught to learn like girls, run like girls, laugh
like girls, empathise like girls and be proud like girls. Being a girl didn’t
have any negative connotations for us back then and the same is true today. We excelled because
we could flourish and thrive. I only hope that young girls today are brought up
to believe in themselves and just be themselves – unafraid and successful. I pray that St. Ann’s Tarnaka and other such empowered schools keep spreading
their light in these dark times.
How was your school journey? Is there anything that you look back on today and think your educators were ahead of time? I would love to find out!
Comments
We were never made to believe we need to fight a race for equality....
Wonderfully written dear...